tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5327588200255910892.post2123579637716294679..comments2023-05-27T01:12:52.206-07:00Comments on Stella's Legacy: Still Need to Write, Still Need to MournJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16966395628988925792noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5327588200255910892.post-61940538943627784322011-07-12T18:27:32.259-07:002011-07-12T18:27:32.259-07:00I've struggled with that guilt over not feelin...I've struggled with that guilt over not feeling the way I (or others) think I should or would expect me to at the great news of a baby... a healthy baby... even though it's not another girl. I want to just be happy I'm pregnant and happy he's seemingly okay. (still have trouble believing that)but for some reason, I still have mixed emotions. When I see a little girl with a cute dress and a bow, I sigh and fight off tears. I am convinced that God will not leave us here. He will help us to bond with these precious new boys at exactly the time we need. When we hold them and get to take them home, we will not be looking at them regretting them...even if we still long for a girl... we will love them. Be patient with yourself and know that you are not alone in these feelings. Love you, StacyRachel's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05085949875951256158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5327588200255910892.post-9109346761257291582011-07-10T11:15:26.864-07:002011-07-10T11:15:26.864-07:00I'm so glad you're writing again. I had s...I'm so glad you're writing again. I had seen you say elsewhere that you were expecting, and having a boy, and I kept thinking that there MUST have been things swirling in your head that you weren't saying. Thank you for starting to put it all out (t)here again.Amy Lnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5327588200255910892.post-53669355476584736252011-07-10T04:13:39.502-07:002011-07-10T04:13:39.502-07:00Jenny, as always, I'm humbled, challenged, and...Jenny, as always, I'm humbled, challenged, and blessed by your honesty and vulnerability. You have NOTHING to be embarrassed by. Please keep writing. Giving you a big hug right now. Love you. - SusanSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15458535711291580885noreply@blogger.com